Do What You Want To So You Can BE Happy

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There is nothing more satisfying in life, then to do what you want to. Because so often we feel like we “should” be doing things that we don’t want to do. Today we are going to talk about the power of making decisions that more you towards what you actually want in life.

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How do you do, what you want to do, when there are so many things you “should” be doing?

So many of us run our lives by “should”… We “should” all over ourselves, and make ourselves feel guilty to the point of doing something. But this comes at the cost of doing that thing half ass because if you are saying you “should” do something then you really don’t want to do it.

Catch my drift?

I used to feel like I “should” do a lot of things. Until I started doing personal development. You see… Tapping into yourself, going deep, asking the questions that are hard to answer helps you know what you want. The further you dive into yourself the easier it is to make decisions that will impact your life more positively. This will also shine light on the moments when you go against the grain. In those moments you will feel it harder. The effects of the negative will be stronger, but consider this a good thing.

If you imagine your emotions as clouds passing by, you can start to see how your life works. Every time you choose to ride a cloud joy, beautiful things come into your experience.  When you choose to saddle up on a cloud storm cloud you choose that experience the same. BUT here is where things get interesting. The more you practice being aware of how you feel, and knowing what you want in your life… The more you will choose that cloud with the rainbows & unicorns. The storm cloud won’t feel so appealing, and you won’t want to hang out there too long.


Here’s THE ultimate thing that will lead you to do what you want to more often…

Know how you feel in each moment, and remind yourself what you want often! If you feel like crap recognize it. You only feel like crap because that feeling is not in alignment with what you want. Feel broke, or any kind of lack? It is only because you aren’t seeing what you could be grateful for in this moment. If you can shift that emotion, recognize the things that are going right… You will have many more opportunities to do what you want to!

Our lives are based on decisions. We make them every moment. If you decide to focus on the things that make you feel good they will propel you.

If you are feeling like your world is crashing down, be angry because that feels a heck of a lot better than helpless. If you feel angry aim for hope. If you feel hope aim for gratitude. Don’t try to reach for gratitude from anger. It doesn’t work like that. Take yourself through the baby steps of becoming a happier, healthier, more confident version of you. BEcause that version of you is magnetic. That version of you will attract amazing experiences, and a beautiful life worth living. A life where you get to do what you want to, whenever you want to, with whomever you want to, without any limitations, AND all the flexibility in the world.

The shift starts with you, but we’re not gonna leave ya dangling. We want to see you thrive, and a heck of a lot faster than we did! So… We made you the Jump Start Your Online Business Toolkit! This thing is jam packed with all kinds of goodies to help you start creating a life that you are really excited about. This thing is stacked from goal setting to building a biz you’ll love, and what your website needs… We’re gonna give you this thing for FREE!

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In conclusion, your life is based on the decisions you make in each moment. We hope the Toolkit helps guide you towards a life you are truly excited about. If you have questions, or comments leave them below. We would love to hear from you. All of the questions that come across, we are happy to turn into videos that could help you do what you want to much sooner.

Erin Nicole Bick

Until Next Time!
Adventure On… Adventure On!

 – Erin Nicole Bick

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Brian Garcia + Erin Nicole Bick

Brian Garcia + Erin Nicole Bick are full-time location independent, online business owners. Brian’s background is in firefighting, digital + photographic imaging, and web development. Erin’s background is in professional hairstyling, social intuition, personal development, creative writing, and brand identity development. Together, they create eCourses, high-end online business development coaching, and social media marketing strategies. They go by… BE Adventure Partners!


  1. lisa oakleaf

    This is so awesome! Really needed to here this today!! I want to DO WHAT I WANT!

    • BE Adventure Partners

      You’re on the right track, Lisa! Look forward to seeing you in the Campfire Q+A in the Tribe to get your questions answered!


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