Overcome Your Limits & Reach For Your Goals As A Couple

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How can you reach for your goals as a couple, when you feel limited by the life you are living?

If your wanting to reach for your goals, it can be tricky. This can put a lot of pressure on a couple. Especially when there are more bills then monthly income.

You’re probably working your tail off. I know I sure was! Running around on my feet all day as a stylist downtown Toronto. Working long hours, without a measly pee break. I felt drained, and I had reached my income cap as the highest paid stylist in the salon. That made life pretty stressful, as a homeowner in the big smoke (Toronto)!

At the time… The relationship I was in had gone stale. We had turned into TV watching zombies (watching zombies). Our “quality time” together started to feel as though we were just roommates.  To be quite honest it was heartbreaking. You may understand. When we lack energy, it is hard to bring much to a relationship. The lack of energy, excitement, and fulfillment leads us to wanting more in life! LUCKILY!

Meanwhile… Brian was going through his own heartbreak in Austin. He was working his tail off just to live the American Dream (24-48 hours a shift). He had a wife, dog, house, RV, and big ol’ pickup truck. But it wasn’t enough to hold them together.

Turns out, to overcome your limits and reach for your goals as a couple… You both need to be on the same page. In our past relationships neither of our visions lined up with the people we were with.


Identify your limits as a couple. What are they?

If you are feeling limited, stuck, or worst of all, standing still, it makes reaching for your goals nearly impossible as a couple.

This can be caused by several factors, that may make you feel helpless. Good news! Brian + I once felt limited in past relationships, and constrained. We promised ourselves we would never live in a feeling of limit, lack, or monotony again! Now these old feeling are just a memory, and we want to help you kick them to the curb! First identify what your limits are.


What is limiting you individually, and together?

Get clear! You may have a laundry list of things that are making you feel limited, putting a wedge between where you are now, and where you want to be.


Write this list of the things dragging you down in each area:

  • Yourself & Lifestyle
  • Your Relationship
  • Your Career


Find your top 3:

Choose the top 3 things dragging you down in each area, yourself, your relationship, and your career. Number them 1-3. You will likely have a good idea of what the top thing is that gets in the way of all things. I will share mine with you below so you can have a better idea.


Write a list of goals you have in each area of your life:

  • Yourself & Lifestyle
  • Your Relationship
  • Your Career


Find your top 3:

Now go ahead and choose the top 3 things in each area that you want to bring into fruition most in yourself, your relationship, and your career.


Time to come together & share.

This could be the most important conversation you and the one you love ever have. To reach for your goals as a couple together is powerful, and if you are both on the same page you will move towards them much faster.

By choosing your top 3 in each category of your life, you are now aware of the things most challenging to you. Having this awareness has been life changing for Brian + Myself. Being vocal, and sharing this with each other has been huge because we can now support one another.

For example, my number one challenge is always self-worth. It effects all aspects of my life. It effects my energy, my focus, and my ability to contribute. Knowing this, I set daily goals for myself that help me work towards what I want most, and how I want to feel. My top goal… Love & confidence in all aspects of my life.

Sharing this with Brian has helped him support me in that area. We are both on board with getting lots of exercise daily, eating healthy, meditating, and listening to personal development. We even read to each other.

In my mind, without love & confidence in myself I cannot be fully happy, contribute to our relationship, or our business. This is true to pretty much all humans on this planet. Trust me, I have done a ton of research on this one when I was a Hairstylist… People tell you everything! If people do not love themselves or lack confidence, it is extremely hard to reach for your goals individually, or as a couple.

Take time to look within yourself, and share with the one you love most. This will open you up to limitless possibilities so you can reach for your goals.

We have created an Exclusive Tribe for Entrepreneurs. BUT it isn’t just about being successful in your business. It is about being successful in yourself, and your relationships so you can focus on being awesome in the business you want to create… Or the one you already have.

Overcoming our limits together has allowed us to reach for goals we never thought possible. Like retire before either of us reached age 35, and build a business we travel the world with full-time.

Exclusive Tribe For Entrepreneurs

BE an unstoppable couple who’s love burns stronger as days go by, instead of fizzles out in the boring zone!  Take charge of your life today, and BE inspired alongside a Tribe of Entrepreneurs who are making a difference in our world!

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Erin Nicole Bick

Until Next Time!
Adventure On… Adventure On!

 – Erin Nicole Bick

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Brian Garcia + Erin Nicole Bick

Brian Garcia + Erin Nicole Bick are full-time location independent, online business owners. Brian’s background is in firefighting, digital + photographic imaging, and web development. Erin’s background is in professional hairstyling, social intuition, personal development, creative writing, and brand identity development. Together, they create eCourses, high-end online business development coaching, and social media marketing strategies. They go by… BE Adventure Partners!


  1. Brian

    ya’ll are doing amazing! keep pouring on this pure value content!!! #BOOM!

    • BE Adventure Partners

      The apple doesn’t fall far from the tree! Thanks so much, brother! We have learned sooo much from you 🙂


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